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How to Spot a Pathological Liar

There’s no two ways about it: Donald Trump lies repeatedly. This is an especially troubling situation for a man with that amount of power and further erodes the degree of confidence that people have in government.

Do you know someone who, shall we say, likes to bend the truth? There are different degrees of lying; a little white lie every once in a while usually does little damage and can often save someone from getting hurt feelings. However, a pattern of lying can be quite destructive, not only for the liar but also their friends, colleagues, and loved ones.

Here are some things to look out for if you suspect someone is a pathological liar:

Narcissism

Pathological liars tend to have a very high opinion of themselves and their lies often revolve around ways in which others seem to share that elevated view.

Low Self-Esteem

This may seem to contradict the narcissism, but pathological liars also tend to suffer from low-esteem. They know they are not qualified, not worthy, etc, and try to cover that up by constantly spewing falsehoods that make them seem superior in the eyes of others.

Angry and Abusive

People with this personality issue tend to have trouble tempering their anger. They may fly off the handle over almost nothing, and that needless anger can cause them to become violent. Even if they don’t physical lash out at people, pathological liars can also engage in verbal abuse.

Selfish

Pathological liars also tend to be quite selfish. This is not surprising as it fits in with the patterns caused by other common behaviors, such as narcissism.

If you know someone who displays tendencies such as these, tread carefully. At the very least, do not take what they at face value, particularly if it could have a serious effect on your life.

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Trump Won’t Stop Lying: Get Used to It

It wasn’t so long ago that a politician caught telling a lie would be in terrible trouble. He or she might be able to bail themselves out with an apology, but, in many cases, depending on the lie, they were finished. Washed up. Out the door.

With Donald Trump’s presidency, those days seem like a millionaire years ago. A shameless, possibly even pathological, liar, Trump is not new to deceit. As a private citizen, he lied with impunity and his money and power allowed him to get away with it in many cases. Those who thought his position as president would temper this behavior must be holding their heads in pain.

The Toronto Star reported that the past week has been Trump’s most dishonest yet: 33 lies in seven days. If you are keeping a running tally, the Star reports that as 447 whoppers during his six months and one week in office.

What does it say about modern American society that the president lies repeatedly while almost no Republican is willing to call him on it, and his supporters don’t seem to care as long as their backward agenda is implemented?

A change in this dire state seems unlikely while Trump remains in power. However, it was precisely this approach (with some help from Russia) that allowed Trump to win an election almost no one thought was possible for Republicans to claim. It’s an example that other politicians will happily emulate and one wonders what it will take to get us back on track.

The answer seems to lie with the public. We need to stop taking everything said and reported at face value, while also checking the validity of the sources providing our information. Good rule of thumb: if you’ve never heard of the source, there’s probably a good reason for that. Social networks also need to put better mechanisms into place to spot and remove (or at least de-emphasize) fake news.

In the meantime, let’s keep hoping for this.

 

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Choosing An Eco-Friendly Paint

Just because a paint is green doesn’t mean it’s eco-friendly.

There’s much more to choosing a paint than picking the perfect colour. Paints can vary by gloss, durability, and even eco-friendliness. Not all shades of green are good for the environment.

Recently, people have become increasingly aware of the risks posed by volatile organic compounds (VOCs) in commercial paint. Volatile organic compounds are carbon-based solvents that get released into the air and react with other elements. They’re there for a reason: VOCs help make paint spreadable and allow it to stick to your walls. But VOCs aren’t good for the environment or for people, as they contribute to air pollution and can lead to a variety of health issues, including breathing issues, headaches, watery eyes, and nausea. Some volatile organic compounds have been linked to a risk of cancer.

Recognizing the demand for safer alternatives, many paint companies have jumped on board the eco-friendly movement and started offering low-VOC or VOC-free paints. This is great news for painters and do-it-yourselfers. However, it’s important to make sure the green paint you’re buying actually lives up to the name.

Recently, the United States Federal Trade Commission caught four major paint companies promoting eco-friendly paints without the facts to back it up. The guilty brands were Benjamin Moore, ICP Construction, YOLO Colorhouse, and Imperial Paints.

According to the FTC, these companies had no evidence to support claims that their products were emission-free or contained zero volatile organic compound. Some made explicit claims their paints were safe for babies, pregnant women, and other groups sensitive to air pollution. A few even had photos of babies and pregnant women right on the packaging! No wonder the culprits were slapped with charges.

As consumers, it’s unnerving to know companies would try to get away with this kind of deception. Fortunately, there are ways to double-check whether the paint you’re buying is truly free from potentially dangerous solvents. Paints with an official green seal certification are guaranteed to have been tested on their claims.

It’s also important to do your research when it comes to any claims about VOC content in paints. Sometimes, a paint only one VOC free during application, not after drying. Other times, the paint contains traces of VOCs. If you’re looking for a paint that’s truly safe and eco-friendly, read the fine print on the can.

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Should I Hire Professionals to Do My Painting?

Whether it is your interior in need of freshening up or an exterior in need of a new layer of protection, painting is part of owning a home. Many people like to do as much of their own work as possible, and that is admirable. However, painting is an area that gives some people pause. There is little room for error, so that can leave some wondering whether they shouldn’t reach into their savings and hire some professionals to do the job.

Are you wrestling with that decision? Here are some things to consider:

Time Crunch

Do you need to get the work done quickly? Most painting services will send several people to do the job. That, combined with their experience, all but guarantees they will get it done faster than you, while also offering the degree of quality required.

Safety Risk

Do you have very high ceilings or is your house especially large? That will mean the use of ladders and scaffolds. If you are afraid of heights or do not have experience doing this sort of work, you might want to have professionals do it.

Physical Exertion

Painting can be a great form of exercise, but is not recommended if you have health issues where physical exertion should be avoided.

Family and Work Responsibilities

If you have a family with little children and pets, you know that it can be quite a challenge to keep them out of certain areas. Parental and work responsibilities often leave people with little spare time and, when they do have a few moments, they are often tired. Painting is time consuming and can be quite difficult. If you think you’re not up to it, given your current workload, definite hire a pro team.

When You Want High Quality Work

Is this particular area of your home quite important to you? The best painters do such good work that you don’t notice any aspects of the painting. If it needs to look great, you need to consider professionals.

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How Often Should I Paint My Home’s Exterior?

You may have passed a home today and thought, “Jeez, they really should give it a new paint job.” If a home’s exterior is faded, cracked, or peeling (or all of the above), then, yes, it’s definitely time to head to the local paint store.

Ideally, you want to stay ahead of the game. That means ensuring that your house looks attractive, while also doing well by the exterior surfaces. The question of how often to paint can depend on several factors:

  • The materials. If you have aluminum siding, consider setting aside home maintenance money so that you can re-paint every five years. Wood siding should be 3-6 years, while areas covered with stain are 4 years. Painted brick? You should be good for 15 years or more.
  • The area you live in. Different areas have weather that can be harder on your paint. Prolonged summer heat can lead paint to bubble and crack. Direct sunlight produces fading, while humidity and harsh weather can also take their toll.
  • Preventive maintenance. Regularly inspect your home’s exterior for signs of rot, mold, or termites. If any of these are evident, get ahead of the problem by dealing with it immediately.

Exterior painting can be quite involved, between the amount of paint and time required, as well as working around the weather. However, the longer you leave it, the more time-consuming and expensive it will be because the prep work will take all that much longer.

Giving your home a nice paint job every few years cannot help but increase its curb appeal. Even if you are not planning to sell at the time you do the work, you will already have it done, should the decision arise to place your home on the market. Getting a house ready for sale can be quite a lot of work, but at least you won’t have much to do on the outside.

Don’t let your home get to this stage!
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Seeing Red at Home

No, that title does not refer to getting into arguments with your spouse. We are here today to discuss the colour red. We recently needed to repaint a couple rooms in our home and I wanted to try something different. We had previously been quite conservative in our design choices, but I was feeling that it was time to be a little daring.

Red is not a colour people often associate with home decor, but it definitely has its place. When people wear red, you notice. It can be quite sensual to look at and is a colour often associated with sex. Now, that doesn’t mean turning your home into the red light district, but red can also add a degree of energy and flare. That’s what I was hoping for when I started investigating various red shades for our den and guest room.

People sometimes complain that red feels overpowering; it can be. However, like any shade, you should keep in mind the effect you’re going for, as well as the contents of the room. I didn’t want a paint colour that seemed oppressive; I just wanted to enhance a part of our home that has felt rather drab.

In addition to being eye-catching, red is a wonderful colour for adding contrast. If you have China you wish to showcase, putting them in front of a red background really makes the ivory coloured hue of the dishes pop.

I understand the trouble involved in choosing a new colour and then finding out it doesn’t work for you. It’s not a decision to be taken lightly. However, I really felt the need to stretch our design boundaries and I think red is just the accent we need to add some new character.

If barn red seems like too much, you can always try Pagoda Red, which most people feel is more brownish than crimson.

How Much Does Room Colour Affect Your Mood?

Many people agonize over the colours they choose for their home. Be it the drapes, rugs, or walls, the colours we choose can have a tremendous affect on how we feel. Don’t forget that for most people, home is where they will be spending the majority of their time. It’s one thing to deal with a drab and less than ideal atmosphere at work, but to come home to a colour scheme that makes you sad, nervous, or anxious is not good for your physical or mental health.

Must admit that I am one of those people who take forever trying to choose a colour scheme. I will look at colour samples until my eyes hurt, but it is worth the time invested: my home needs to be a sanctuary away from the real world and how it looks is very important in maintaining that illusion.

Don’t worry about trends. The paint you choose for your home should last for years, while trends change almost annually. Pick what feels right for you and your family because you will be the ones living there.

Colours can establish mood and the three go-to colour themes are passive, neutral, and active. Do you have a room that is your favourite for relaxing? Blue is a good choice here. Green is also a hue that is known for helping one to relax.

Red is an active, energetic colour. Use it for areas where people congregate to talk and have fun, like the living room or rec room.

Neutral colours like white, grey, and brown are good for areas like the kitchen, where you are there to do some work, but it should also not feel like WORK work.

Some friends looking to repaint their house have asked for recommendations; I was particularly impressed with the professionalism of this company, which did an excellent job adding new life to my parents’ 19th century home.

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Best Toronto Residential Painters

People seek out help for professional painters because they are lack of abilities to do it by themselves. They wanted something new and make their place looks great that can only be done by a skilled painter. Searching through the internet regarding residential painters will provide plenty of options. The search results will be quite overwhelming experience because there are many painting companies nowadays. Don’t worry! You can narrow it down. Having just a specific location that is close to your place, providing keywords such as painter, residential or whatever you think related to the painting companies. Doing so, will give you much lesser search results. It is much easier to manage the list of search and you can definitely choose your preferred company that can help you out to do paint job for you.

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When sorting out all your search results, you need to take a look at their ratings and reviews by other clients. You will see which company is providing quality work and services. The reviews and ratings will help you decide which is the best Toronto residential painters for you to hire. The quality of best painters is friendly and professionals, can provide outstanding painting result, can start and finish the job on time, works spotless clean-up and give reasonable price to their customers.

Also get some information to your neighbors, friends and family that already experienced hiring painters. It’s also best to learn from them because you can avoid experiencing unpleasant results. Give yourself a time to think and decide. No need to rush in decision making. Some house painting in Toronto area can be your basis when determining which company you like. Remember that you should not let just anyone else to do painting for your interior walls or exterior surfaces to make it affordable. Be wise!

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Changing Up Space

Hello everyone!  Welcome to my blog – Wnisker 🙂

My name is Whitney and I started this blog to document the renovations that will be happening inside my 3 bedroom townhouse over the next couple of months.  I bought this house in the summer and it has taken me long enough to start renovations.  But alas, finally we have started.

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I wanted to document my journey through this to help those of you who are thinking of renovating your house but are too scared to go through with it.  It’s definitely going to be tough, but I’ll highlight the good and the bad – everything that comes with doing a whole renovation.

So come back and I will keep you all posted on the changes!